Sunday, December 13, 2009

my bucket list

So i've been thinking a lot about things I want to do, see and places I want to go... Kind of my "bucket list" so to speak. And I figured better than just talking about would be to write(type) it out and do it! So - here is my list of things I've always wanted/wanted to do, and in no particular order(italicized means I've done it!!):


1. Paris & the Eiffel Tower
2. Las Vegas
3. New York, New York
4. Disney World
5. Universal Studios
6. The Keys
7. Bahamas
8. Jamaica
9. Italy
10. Greece
11. Honduras
12. San Francisco
13. Los Angeles
14. Washington, DC
15. Seattle, Washington
16. Savannah, GA
17. Tybee Island

18. New Orleans
19. Miami, FL
20. Cabo
21. Cancun
22. Alaska
23. Skydive
24. Parasail
25. Parachute
26. Disneyland
27. Hollywood
28. Take a cruise
29. Go on a cross country road trip
30. Get a tattoo with my husband's & my kids' names/initials
31. Get my nose pierced
32. Tattoo on my foot
33. Take a couples dance class with my hubby
34. go Skiing in Colorado
35. ice skate on a frozen lake in a northern state
36. jump off a waterfall
37. visit Hawaii with my husband & daughters
38. learn how to drive a stick shift
39. go to Hilton Head Island w/my family
40. hop a plane for an impromptu/spontaneous day and/or weekend trip
41. fly in a private plane somewhere for a day
42. rock climb (and not on a rock wall... REAL rock climbing)
43. I want to go hunting
44. deep sea fishing with my girls
45. a girls only beach trip with my sisters, sister in law and daughters
46. drive up the california coast
47. venice
48. prague
49. the grand canyon
50. the cayman islands
51. thailand
52. africa
53. drive a corvette, a ferrari, a delorean
54. horseback riding down the beach
55. watch a westcoast sunset
56. drive on the autobon
57. a "surprise date"
58. a night at the Fox
59. to see something on broadway
60. dinner and dancing all gussied up

there's more, i'm sure, scratch that, I KNOW! And I'll add them as I think of them :)
What are some of your recommendations? or somethings on your "bucket list"?

words.

Psalm 57:4
My soul is among lions; I lie among them that are set on fire, Even the sons of men, whose teeth are spears and arrows, And their tongue a sharp sword.

Psalm 64:3
Who have whet their tongue like a sword, And have aimed their arrows, even bitter words,

Proverbs 12:18
There is that speaketh rashly like the piercings of a sword; But the tongue of the wise is health.

Hosea 7:16
They return, but not to him that is on high; they are like a deceitful bow; their princes shall fall by the sword for the rage of their tongue: this shall be their derision in the land of Egypt.


Words are very powerful. Especially when used the wrong way. I don't know what your spiritual beliefs are, but scripture even warns us of the danger of using our words to cut others. And today I did just that. I was hurt and fired back... It's amazing the things that come out of your mouth before you even realize what you are saying. And we always know just what to say to hurt the ones that we love... And we can always hurt the ones we love the most. And I am guilty of that today.

Instead of using my husbands weak points to build him up as I should have, I threw them at him and used them against him. I basically poured salt in an open wound. And I didn't even realize I had done it until after it had happened and I couldn't take my words back.

As his wife I have a responsibility, not to feed his ego but to protect his identity as a man, my husband and the father of my children. As a Christian I am supposed to not try to "get back at someone" for how they hurt me. And I failed.

Our words are so powerful and we have the power to make or break someone by our tongue. And we need to be so very careful what we say to people and how we say it. Once something is said you cant take it back, you can apologize but you can't replace the piece of that person that has been damaged once your words have been spoken.